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I met my boyfriend 5 months ago and he's been nothing but good to me. The problem is that whenever we try to get intimate my heart starts beating fadt and i panic coz i'm really scared of having s_ex as i'm still a virgin . Its not lyk i don't love him but i get so scare that i'll ruin the moment coz i'm not really experianced. He does not know i'm still a virgin . How do i tell him and how do i get rid of this fear coz i really want our relationship to work . plz help
The best way to conquer a relationship is via dialogue,so it will be your benefit to tell him your circumstance and make him understand,cause am sure you don't want to loose your virginity through silly silence.If he loves you he'll understands and applaud you for that.Don't sell yourself for 5 mouth's Love my dear.
NB.(Dr S.Mpendulo dé cleverest Ngwenya)
I also think you need to find a way to speak to your BoyFriend. I do know if he really love you he will understand and respect you.
Tell him everything that you feel. If he really loves you, he'll understand and will give to time to make yourself comfortable.
Tell him abt your virginity and ask him to go easy on you, its your first time after all. And pls participate in the s_ex the last thing I would wanna do is s_ex with a dummy(no offence), watch some movies or pornography for some tips on having s_ex u'll be cool
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