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Really scared i'll lose him

Postby Vee23 » Wed Nov 23, 2016 8:34 am

I met my boyfriend 5 months ago and he's been nothing but good to me. The problem is that whenever we try to get intimate my heart starts beating fadt and i panic coz i'm really scared of having s_ex as i'm still a virgin . Its not lyk i don't love him but i get so scare that i'll ruin the moment coz i'm not really experianced. He does not know i'm still a virgin . How do i tell him and how do i get rid of this fear coz i really want our relationship to work . plz help

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Re: Really scared i'll lose him

Postby Mpendulo » Wed Nov 23, 2016 9:46 pm

The best way to conquer a relationship is via dialogue,so it will be your benefit to tell him your circumstance and make him understand,cause am sure you don't want to loose your virginity through silly silence.If he loves you he'll understands and applaud you for that.Don't sell yourself for 5 mouth's Love my dear.

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Re: Really scared i'll lose him

Postby meiki » Tue Nov 29, 2016 2:47 pm

Tell him if he doesn't understand then he never had loved you in the first place
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Re: Really scared i'll lose him

Postby Cooljah » Wed Nov 30, 2016 8:48 pm

I also think you need to find a way to speak to your BoyFriend. I do know if he really love you he will understand and respect you.
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Re: Really scared i'll lose him

Postby ElviaGoldner » Tue Dec 13, 2016 7:44 am

Tell him everything that you feel. If he really loves you, he'll understand and will give to time to make yourself comfortable. :thumbsup
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Re: Really scared i'll lose him

Postby Bonganimotsoeneng » Thu Dec 15, 2016 4:23 pm

Don't be scared love I'm here for you matter fact im loyal to my girlfriend
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Re: Really scared i'll lose him

Postby Vinny140 » Wed Dec 28, 2016 5:39 am

Tell him abt your virginity and ask him to go easy on you, its your first time after all. And pls participate in the s_ex the last thing I would wanna do is s_ex with a dummy(no offence), watch some movies or pornography for some tips on having s_ex u'll be cool
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Re: Really scared i'll lose him

Postby MELLOWYELLOW » Wed Jan 04, 2017 10:38 am

BABY GAL BE HONEST TO HIM.TELL HIM HOW U FEEL.Besides u got nthng to loose if he das not get it.
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Re: Really scared i'll lose him

Postby gentlesweet » Fri Apr 28, 2017 4:41 am

Hi, please kindly contact me on 0613052909
via Whatsapp so we can talk privately.
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Re: Really scared i'll lose him

Postby Kananelopj » Fri Apr 28, 2017 4:10 pm

it's scary at first buy he's ur bf. tell him
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